Below are the 5 most recent journal entries recorded in spexappeal's LiveJournal:

Wednesday, June 7th, 2006
11:32 pm	The Movie Kinsey, about the famed sex researcher is a marvelous movie. IT was warm, tender and I thought, funny at times. There were some quite sexy bits and some parts that made me wince (the failed honeymoon-ouch). I recommend seeing the flick and feel that I should have seen it earlier. (Comment on this)
Monday, May 29th, 2006
11:04 am	Anne Rice's naughty books Anne Rice wrote a triology of naughty books based loosely on the Grimm's tale of sleeping beauty. Volume one begins not so innocently enough with Beauty loosing her viginity to the Prince-the top who comes to claim her. He takes her back to his kingdom, where she discovers she is to be a slave-sex-toy-bottom to the known universe. Much kink ensues. The book/trilogy progresses from having the feel of a book about kinky sex to suddenly becoming a kinky porn flick. Well, what do I mean? It starts out as a book, with the feel of a book, introduction, characters... Then it becomes a porn flick: random scenes of random kink scenes and fetishes, random environments and backdrops, loosely connected events and personages. At any rate, over the years it has been a nice little mainstay in my question for random scenes of random scenes. It has fed my appetite for kink while being a little too shy to adventure into anything actively group-oriented or exhibitionistically-oriented. So, confined to my bed for several days I dream about her deliciously described scenes of being topped, and being penetrated through every pore, simultaneously. So here I am regretting the missed chance to play with a gentleman friend, because I need coaxing from my reticence... and here I am thinking...fuck me! I want to feel you fill my mouth, my pussy, and my ass. I want to feel your fingers, your tongue and your cock. I want to feel you fill all of me with your need, your desire, and your seed. I want to feel you command me. Take me. Make me your slave. I want to feel you fuck my mouth with your cock and my pussy with your fingers. I want to feel you come in my mouth, while I kneel between your knees. I want to feel your body penetrate mine. Tie me up. Tie me down. I am yours. I want to feel you pull my body down onto your cock. A shudder of pleasure. I want to feel you pulsing, thrusting and penetrating me, submersing my soul. I want to feel you take everything from my body that you want and need and then I want to feel you take more and leave me exhausted, yet begging you for more. Please fuck me. Current Mood: horny (Comment on this)
Sunday, April 30th, 2006
12:48 am	Fellatio, Sex Tips and Violet Blue Fellatio is not generally something that you can learn in passing unless you are naturally talented, somewhat obsessed or very gifted. I have been considering the topic of fellatio frequently lately, mostly because I am drawn to perform it on my boyfriend in a way that has never really caught my attention before...so I ask myself WHY am I so interested in fellating him, in particular. It is not my fetish per se. I realized it is partially about smell. I like the way he smells and it compels me. Also shape, um and size..he has the perfect size and shape for, uh, my mouth. Yes, that covers it. I am generally intercourse obsessed --and find there is no better place for my lover to orgasm than inside of me! I love the tension, the energy, the raw power of my lover's body and the force of his orgasm. It is delicious. Now, I have discovered a new joy...that energy and pleasure being 100% in one place--in him! It is so beautiful and delicious to see your partner convulse in pleasure, 100% in that moment. I have wanted to be better in the fellatio department for some time. I had picked up two books to guide me in my project: Sex Tips for Straight women form a Gay Man by Dan Anderson and Maggie Berman, and The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio: How to go down on a Man and give Him Mind-blowing Pleasure by Violet Blue. Sex Tips, while amusing, was not very useful (or perhaps I didn't practice enough) and I found the advice felt somewhat dated. It seems as if the authors wanted to be brief and chatty. The book is not specifically dedicated to fellatio, but does cover some of the basics. Violet blue's Book, The Ultimate Guide is thorough! Two hundred and fifty pages of detailed, current information. The thing that Violet does well is to give the spectrum of "normal" for any given act, body part and possible outcome. The first third or so of the book covers personal sexual health and the health of the partner, body parts and bits. The rest of the book goees into great detail the act of fellatio--in a thorough, honest, detailed manner. Knowing the spectrum of possibilities, rather than the norm was wonderful. She did a good job of describing ways to communicate about sex with a partner and ways to observe the partner to ensure you are getting the results that you actually would like to get. The details, the details, the details...they are all pretty amazing and they work. I won't go into them in depth...but Violet really knows her sstuf and I can't wait to read the book on cunnilingus simply to see her expertise adn how it applies to my body. WOW. Current Music: Kasmir by Led zep (2 Comments |Comment on this)
Wednesday, April 12th, 2006
5:48 am	On the beauty of concision? A friends list of things he needs: milk, new apartment, blow job. It sounds so concise. So practical. So Simple. As if it were the easiest thing in the world. I wish that it sounded so simple for women. There is overlap in expressions between what the men say and what we have: silly expressions such as "muff diving" delicacies such as perhaps "pleasuring a woman" indirect work-arounds like "going down on someone" clinical expressions such as "cunnilingus, oral sex." I would like to be able to say, "Yes, I'd like an oil change and a blow job. Thank you!" Simple, direct and to the point.... (Comment on this)
5:42 am	BDSM and Midori Midori invite? Midori will be offering a very interesting workshop on creating no-way-out dilemmas for your bottom. A friend has graciously offered me his reservation. (Comment on this)